Grumpy Mommy Day

Hi, Friends.

We are preparing to move. Everything is going well, but we don't have an exact date yet. I'm feeling excited, terrified, and impatient to get on with it.

We had a wonderful vacation to Alabama, Florida, and Georgia, in that order.

Little Jim got his first tooth!!!

Allergy season has struck (mostly Elizabeth) with full force.

My Mom got her mission call! I'll publish it with her permission in a few days.

I accomplished one of my 101 goals! I made someone a birthday cake! The Beehive teacher. I made her a pineapple Cream cake (thank you Grama Fancher for the recipe from Mr. Food.).

101 Goals for 1001 Days

I did a cool exercise found on the website the simple dollar (http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2007/05/04/101-goals-in-1001-days/), where I wrote 101 goals for the next 1001 days. (that's just under 3 years)

If you know me really well, you might know I'm a goal freak! I love goals, and usually feel best when pursuing one. I almost can't function without basic goals to guide my day.

But, the list is TMI (too much info) for this blog. So, I've posted it at my alter ego's blog. Please feel free to view it there.

www.meetthemrs.blogspot.com

I've organized the list into categories for my convenience.

Mantras to Live By and How to Keep Your Cheese from Molding

I learned some true principles while I was delivering pizzas:
You can't completely ignore your own needs while meeting the needs of others.(Also applies in parenting. You're going to be cranky if you're hungry or sleepy, and if you're cranky the kids will suffer.)


The primary goals of a business should be to serve customers' needs and make money, in that order.


Quality oriented businesses are cheaper to run and more successful.


An inexperienced new employee can see underlying flaws in a business that management is blind to.


Now for the cheese part (hints from Darleen Zaehringer):
Separate your bananas when you get home from the store. They will ripen faster if left connected at the stem.


Store open chunks of cheese in aluminum foil. It will stay fresh longer and will not mold.


Bell Peppers with 3 bumps on the bottom are sweeter and better for eating. Peppers with four bumps are firmer and better for cooking.


Weed control your plants with overlapping sheets of wet newspaper. Cover with mulch. Some weeds will get through some gardening plastic, but they will not get through wet newspaper.


Reheat pizza in a non-stick skillet on med-low heat until warm. The crust will stay crispy.


Add garlic immediately to a recipe for a light garlic taste and at the end of the recipe for a stronger garlic flavor.

Grace has Root Beer

I gave the girls some root beer for a snack this afternoon. While we don't drink soda very often, we had some left over from driving snacks.

After sampling it straight from the can, Grace said to me, "Root beer is the spiciest thing in my life. I bet it has a lot of onions in it."

Birthday Fun

My birthday surprise was to take the family on an overnight campout!

We borrowed some woods and a tent from some good friends.

Fun, fun, fun!!!!

And, ouch about sleeping on the ground.

And, itch about the poison ivy...

The Last Egg

We have given away our feathered stewardship. And I have collected our last egg. It fulfilled the purpose of its creation in a zucchini bread. Yummy!

Dear Abby ( I don't have your email...)

Dear Abby,

My best friend in first grade was named Abby. She had an older brother named Caleb. She looked nothing like you, though. She was thick-boned, with short, thick dark brown hair. Not pretty at all, but my friend anyway.

About your question on Homeschooling. I'm not sure what you'd like to know.

I am only homeschooling temporarily. I know we will be moving within 5 weeks, and I don't want Grace to be in a totally new environment for only 5 weeks. After we move, I plan to enroll Grace in whatever public school we fall into.

Now, I was homeschooled from Grade 7 to graduation (at age 15).

What questions did you have? I am surely not a good resource for you, but I will tell you what I can.

Your cousin in law,
Elizabeth

My Weakness for Books

Well, I got my first spending money the first of June (which I wrote about a little back in May). And then the first of July, and then the 1st of August.

And, what have I done with it? Mostly I bought Books I have wanted, or books that looked good, or books on topics I need to learn right now. I'm making it a goal right now to post a list of all the amazing books I've bought since May. (Here it comes...)

I am now the proud owner of 2 books by W. Edwards Deming! (One was free!) (He was a quality expert who taught the Japanese about Quality after WWII. I love his business philosophies.)

I am learning Bonnie Prudden's Myotherapy, and I have 2 more of her books to read when I finish that one!

I've read 2 more of Jorge Cruise's recent books: 3 hour Diet and 12 Second Sequence.

I've read Miserly Moms and own Frugal Families by Jonni McCoy.

I've read the More with Less Cookbook compiled by Dorothy Janzen Longacre, and some of The Amazing Legume by Alice Jenner.

I've received a reading program I'm using in our homeschool called Reading Reflex: Phono Graphix program for intuitive reading.

I've received and reread the Sidetracked Home Executives.

I just got my latest from paperbackswap, but I'm saving it to open on my Birthday. Its called: "Brand You 50" by Tom Peters. It is a wonderful how-to book, although with some expletive language.

Finally, I've joined a website where I can share what I think about the books I read. Its called Goodreads.com, and any of you who would like to connect with me there, just email me! It is really fun to see what my friends are reading.

Betchdoubles

"Honey, would you like some raisins?" said Mom to Sienna.

"Oh, yes! Those are my favorite betchdouble in the whole world! Those are my favorite betchdouble."

My Birthday Present-s- to Myself

Yes, it is good to be me! I married an incredibly great guy who adores me.

And, I'm having another birthday soon.

What else is there?

So, I'm taking a weekend off! That's right! Royal is letting me go for a whole weekend to visit my Mom without the kids, except I'll probably take Jimmy anyway.

So, pray for him, Folks! That he can have a good time. I know he will be okay, but I don't know if he will enjoy this opportunity to meet the unending needs of my darling daughters for 72 hours!

And, after I get back, I'm taking the family for a surprise one-night getaway. That is my other birthday present. I'll try to let you all know what it was if I have time when we get back. Hint: It is something I've been wanting to do since finishing the book 3 Steps to a Stronger Family by the Eyres.

Free, Like Me

"Mom, wanna know what my favorite candy in da whole world is?"

(Mom waits silently.)

"Yellow bubblegum, Mom. Yellow bubblegum is my favorite in da whole world."

"Honey, you've never had yellow bubblegum."

"But, I'm free now, Mom! I'm free. I'm still free. Are you free like me, Mom?"

"No, honey. I'm twenty five."

"Oh. Well, I'm free."

Zucchini Out the Wazoo

Last week we had so much stuff to do, we let the garden go to weeds. And the Zucchini inflated to caveman-club size. We had so much it completely filled our kitchen sink. And I picked four more pretty large squashes yesterday. I'm thinking we'll go with only two zucchini plants next year. Five is a bit much.

Anyone need some zucchini?

The Number 4

This week we learned about numbers in our Meservy Family Homeschool.

We became number detectives, looking for hidden numbers all around us. We found a one represented by the lone lawnmower sitting in the barbershop's yard. Grace found a two represented by 2 ripe yellow squash. Our hidden three was represented by the three of us (Sienna, Grace, and myself) until Grace pointed out that we actually represented four people- I was holding Jimmy! We found five weed flowers (quite pretty, too.) and six pumpkin leaves.
We estimated that there were thousands and thousands of leaves on our giant oak tree. And, thousands and thousands of grass blades were found in our yard.

I just asked Grace, "What number do all the toys on your floor represent?"

"A hundred."

;-) Fun in homeschool, but chaos around the house. Hey, you can't have everything.

"Center"

This is from 3 weeks ago.

Sometimes I feel calm.

But, most of the time, I can't figure out how to slow myself down enough to think about one subject at a time.

This week is one of those off-center times. I desire to complain a lot and sleep.

Our upcoming move (still no interview, but we feel certain Royal will get the job) is exhilarating, but also adding quite a bit of stress to life.

I haven't posted much lately because I don't have much free time.

I am homeschooling Grace (very fun so far, but does take time!), tending a garden, packing my home, planning a major vacation, and mothering 3 kids full time. Royal finally quit throwing pizzas yesterday. It's my fault, too. I just asked him to stop until we are settled somewhere else.

We just got a very cool new Young Women's president. I'm still teaching the Mia Maids.

I hope I can calm down soon.

Flat Head

I'm sitting here at 10:45 PM, holding a piece of ice for Jim to suck on while Daddy runs to the gas station for orajel. (Shannon, thank you so much for those cool baby-food netted thingies! I have wanted one for years.)

It all started this afternoon when I put a sock on his Right hand.

Our lovely son sucks his 2 middle fingers on his right hand. This has seemingly caused a seriously lopsided head shape.

Now, I don't want him to have to have the helmet. So, we've tried a padded wedge (thank you, Laura!). He wriggled himself into the bottom, and turned his head to the right.

So, we tried a bag of rice in a sock. (heavier wedge.) He wiggled off it in a few minutes.

So, now, Mommy feels determined to take away those beloved right handed fingers. And, at 5:30 this evening, the first sock went on the hand.

He did very well, only crying for 20 minutes before substituting with left hand. Until tonight!

He has been crying for 45 minutes. He never cries, so this is upsetting his Daddy royally. (wink, wink)

Daddy tried troubleshooting first: Does he need to burp? Does he have gas? Does he need a diaper change? Does he cry even with the light on? Does he cry when in the swing? (what a good Daddy!!!) Finally, R agreed to wear earplugs if I would comfort Jim.

Now Jim was crying with left fingers in mouth! So I put some pressure on his gums, and he stopped crying. Remove pressure, and he cried immediately. So, now, he is quietly sucking on ice, and waiting for orajel. First piece of ice just finished melting. What a good boy!